As part of a broader workplace transformation initiative, one organization had been investing in leadership development.
The leader involved in this case was already highly capable. They understood each team member’s strengths and relationships well, delegated work appropriately based on experience and capability, and managed the team in a thoughtful and stable manner. From the outside, this leader would easily have been considered “a good manager.”
And yet, the leader still felt that something was missing.
The team was functioning, but collaboration among team members remained limited, and proactive ideas or initiatives were not emerging as much as expected. There was a sense that the team still had untapped potential that had not yet been fully unlocked.
To better understand the situation, the organization introduced a process in which a third party observed a team meeting facilitated by the leader.
After the meeting, the leader temporarily stepped out, and a separate feedback discussion was held with the remaining team members.
Using the SBI model (Situation, Behavior, Impact), the discussion focused not on criticizing behavior, but on exploring what an even better team environment could look like.
Rather than “pointing out problems,” the feedback process was designed as a dialogue to help envision a stronger and more collaborative future state together.
Interestingly, the feedback that emerged was not dissatisfaction with the leader.
In fact, the opposite was true.
Because the team trusted the leader’s judgment and capability, they wanted the leader to involve them more actively and create greater space for their own ideas and contributions.
Team members expressed thoughts such as:
The feedback reflected not frustration, but expectation and trust.
The team was not rejecting the leader. They wanted to build the team together more actively.
The observations and feedback were then shared with the leader in a way that protected anonymity.
Through this process, the leader realized something important.
Without intending to, they had already completed much of the work and collaboration “scenario” in their own mind before discussions even began.
“This person can probably handle this much.”
“This approach will likely be the most efficient.”
“This is probably the best direction.”
Highly capable and responsible leaders often anticipate solutions quickly and move ahead efficiently.
However, in doing so, they can unintentionally reduce opportunities for team members to think independently, contribute ideas, or expand beyond assumed limitations.
The feedback process helped the leader recognize this dynamic for the first time from an outside perspective.
In the following meetings, the leader changed just one thing.
The intention shifted toward drawing out as many ideas and perspectives from team members as possible.
The atmosphere changed noticeably.
Comments such as:
began emerging naturally across the team.
Even team members who had previously interacted very little started offering support and collaboration to one another.
The moment the leader shifted from being the person who “provided the answers” to the person who “unlocked the team’s potential,” the team itself began moving more autonomously.
Highly capable leaders often fall into a pattern of analyzing situations and solving problems largely on their own.
But when leaders begin trusting and drawing out the potential of the people around them, team performance becomes more than the sum of individual contributions.
New ideas emerge. Collaboration deepens. Team members grow while producing stronger results together.
This case demonstrates that feedback can become far more than simply “pointing out behaviors.” It can become a dialogue that unlocks potential — both for individuals and for teams.
And ironically, this is often the very shift that highly capable leaders are most likely to overlook.
If your organization currently feels that:
then the missing piece may not be stronger leadership capability, but rather creating the right feedback and dialogue structures that help unlock the full potential of the team.